They didn't tell us this before we got married

At the beginning, the writer talked about the nature of marriage and what we only see when we lose it and we do not realize its meanings despite its simplicity, expecting one thing and what happens is something else. The writer takes us on a tour of 30 diverse chapters about relationships and the truth of the matter that we only discover after marriage and yet we do not realize it. He begins with the decision to marry and the engagement period that is limited to feelings, sweet words and gifts, then he touches on more pleasant matters when the title of the chapter is a message wrapped in simple and attractive words, which is “Marriage is not a mental health clinic,” addressing a situation that many resort to when they express marriage as comfort or an escape from a harsh life and a rearrangement of a troubled life, describing this way of dealing with the decision to marry as a crime in every sense.